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So, the month of July, 2007 was a very interesting one for me. Did you know that posting snarky, vaguely indirect criticisms of generalized problems with today’s electronic music on a mailing list can lead to an unhinged nutjob threatening you and your family? Did you know that making snarky, indirect comments on mailing lists and your blog about how local techno promoters show a lack of diversity in their musical offerings can get you branded as a pariah, a “hater” and worse? Did you know that some local electronic music promoters consider snarky mailing list posts to be more threatening and distasteful than someone making threats of violence against someone and their family? It’s true!

A good friend (?) of mine almost had me convinced that I was the problem, and I spent a fair amount of time beating myself up over it. Fortunately, I came to my senses about all this nonsense and have started to develop some fairly lucid thoughts about the whole sordid affair, which I plan on detailing on this blog soon. One thing’s for sure, there’s a whole lot more to life than worrying about your position in the local, temporary pecking order of big fish in little ponds.

(If you’re reading this, and thinking that it’s a lot of shop-talk and inside baseball stuff, you’re right.)

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From:[info]mjb
Date: August 9th, 2007 06:03 am (UTC)
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Re: the question mark after good friend ... IMHO, the friends who'll call us out on our shit are usually the best ones to have. They might be misjudge the situation sometimes, but that's when the "opinions are like assholes" maxim can be applied :)
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From:[info]wew
Date: August 9th, 2007 03:04 pm (UTC)
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I agree, and I don't mind being called out on my shit, but that's not really what that was. Good friendships are usually comprised of other things than just calling us out on our shit, and some idle chit-chat, I haven't seen much more than that for a good long while now. It's not bad, it's not good, it just is. Probably more just a matter of folks drifting apart than anything else. One thing though, when you sense someone is drifting away from you, you don't internalize their criticisms in the same way as someone who sticks with that friendship through thick and thin.
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